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In September '07, I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. In an effort to maintain my sense of humor while integrating this new reality into my life, I started this blog, which has become my public journal, an opinion column, and a rough draft for my book. MS prompted this project but it's also about life in general. My life, that is.
©2007-2008, Julie M. Baker
Maybe I'm Just Lazy by Lazy Julie M. Baker is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-No Derivative Works 3.0 United States License.
Based on a work at lazyjulie.blogspot.com.
We can't give blood anymore, either. And, since I'm an organ donor I was curious about if my "parts" would be able to benefit someone else. Apparently it would depend here in Texas - the possible recipient would have to be told about the MS and decide to do despite that. Amazing how much this disease affects everything...
ReplyDeleteIt's true. We can no longer give blood, and that has been one of the hardest things for me to deal with over the years. I was a consistent, determined blood donor for many years before my diagnosis. When my former employer started having blood drives at work a couple of years ago, it was still difficult--even after 8 years--to have to say no. Of course what I remember most is the nurse who was so kind to me after I told her. She must have had some friend or family member who has MS. Or maybe SHE was the one with MS. Anyway, somehow she knew how difficult it was for me to be excluded from a group I had been so proud to be a part of. It was one of those moments of connection that you never forget.
ReplyDeleteI too was once an avid blood donor and advocate for tissue and organ donation, and now I feel left out and frustrated further by the never-ending list of limitations imposed by MS. However, I've been considering following my Grandad's example and willing my corpse to medical research. I'd love to find out how to donate it directly to MS research of some kind. I'm still sorting out the details, but I did hear about this book, "STIFF: The Curious Lives of Cadavers" by Mary Roach. Apparently it's fascinating and basically instructions on donating one's remains. I haven't read it yet, but it's on my Xmas list.
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